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Tuesday, May 19, 2009

The Sting of Rejection

The Internet Cafe Welcomes Cynthia Eddie in for a cup!

I didn't come to reject the world; I came to save the world.

John 12:47 (The Message)

Rejection can have such a damaging impact on a person, especially if that person is not secure in their status or character. Rejection can stir up long forgotten memories of a time that should be left in the past.

To be rejected by someone is hurtful to say the least. It may have been a person you admired or a person you FULLY TRUSTED and they let you down!

This experience happened to me. I had a long-standing friendship with someone and one day they just shut me out for no apparent reason. It was hurtful and confusing. I sought an answer by email and by telephone but to no avail. I finally wrote a letter to the individual and still got no response.

OUCH, ANOTHER REJECTION. But GOD is good because the person came face to face with me (quite by accident!!) and I had the opportunity to ask questions and say what I had basically stated in the letter.

The person was quite uncomfortable and truly did not come clean with an appropriate answer that left me feeling DEJECTED. I went to God and prayed and cried and asked “what did I do?”

With time God gently showed me that we are connected with some people for life and others are just passing through. It took me a long time to accept this and realize that not everyone is is able to be a friend; some people are not able to be a friend because they may have luggage from their own past that inhibits this. True friendship is deep and many shy away from opening their hearts, past pain and hurts may be responsible for this.

Jesus was rejected many, many times.

He was rejected by the spiritual leaders in the temples.

He was rejected by the Romans.

He was rejected by one of His own disciples!

And He continues to be rejected today.

But He will never reject His own. We are the His flock; the sheep of his pasture.


He’s the one who will never leave me or forsake me and because of His promise, I can follow the Master and continue to love despite the occasional stings.

Prayer for the Woman Who Has Been Rejected

Father, I ask you to bless every woman reading this prayer who has been rejected. I ask that the Holy Spirit minister to their heart and show them a new revelation of your love and power. Where there is pain, give her your peace and mercy.

Where there is self-doubt, release a renewed confidence through Your grace. Where there is anger, give her the strength to forgive. Lord, reveal yourself to each woman according to her need, show each woman that they are worthy in Your eyes, no matter what the situation may look like to them. Lord, lift her spirit and mend her heart. I pray this in the precious name of Jesus.

In Him,


Cynthia Eddie is a woman who loves God and loves people. She has three beautiful children and enjoys using her gift of writing and life experiences to encourage women.

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Blogger Denise said...

Sweet blessings to you dear.

May 19, 2009 at 5:17 AM  
Blogger Beth in NC said...

Thanks for sharing this with us. I have been there before and it is so painful.

I pray God will use you to bring healing to many who are struggling with this issue.


May 19, 2009 at 6:34 AM  
Blogger Christa said...

This is so familiar, doesn't matter who, why or how, just that it does happen. Having been there,and recently, God provides and helps us through. God Bless

May 19, 2009 at 8:45 AM  
Blogger Kara @ KSS said...

Very wonderful. I too have been rejected by friends. It's so hurtful. But it's so good to have a reminder that sometimes friendships just aren't meant to be long-term, and that I should be relying on GOD for my companionship. :)

May 19, 2009 at 12:44 PM  
Blogger Kristina said...

Love this post!

May 19, 2009 at 7:49 PM  
Anonymous Jennifer Reyes said...

Cynthia, thanks for sharing your heart and your life. Rejection! Ouch! Thank God for the God of all Comfort.

May 19, 2009 at 7:55 PM  
Blogger skoots1mom said...

one of the best ever written

May 19, 2009 at 7:56 PM  
Blogger Dianne Q Adams said...

Perfect timing. I'm dealing with this with my teenage daughter who didn't get invited to a party. Rejection begins early and continues throughout our lives no matter our age. It is so hard to know how to comfort that hurt. Thanks for your words.

May 19, 2009 at 8:40 PM  
Blogger constance said...

That was so good and a wonderful reminder because we all have experienced this rejection at some time in our lives. I have been experiencing it myself. It is hurtful and in the natural so hard to understand how one of God's kids could be so mean. But like you said it happened to Jesus, too. He reminded me that when people talk about me or treat me unkindly they are not just doing it to me but they are doing it to him as thank you for was so good. bless you

May 19, 2009 at 9:43 PM  
Blogger Charlene said...

WOW, REJECTION DOES HURT!! I know what it's like first hand to be rejected/ignored!! PRAISE GOD, over the years I've grown to know who I am IN JESUS CHRIST and the sorry and hurt I use to feel for myself is no longer in existence. I now pray and feel sorry for the "rejector"; for in their hidden miseries and insecurities, they can't know what they're doing! I personally do not feel that I'm better than, but I AM BETTER OFF!! GOD BLESS!

May 20, 2009 at 10:30 AM  
Anonymous Denise J said...

Thanks for blessing us Cynthia, I love it. So true..."Friends may be around for a season"

Rejection is like a "paper cut".. it sting for a moment but God's Love will quickly heal and restore a new skin.

God bless you, ricly,
Denise J.

May 20, 2009 at 11:41 PM  

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